Non-alcoholic drinks are real drinks
Zero-proof can be thoughtful. It should not be an afterthought soda.
A good non-alcoholic order has structure: acid, bitterness, sweetness, texture, garnish. Seedlip-and-tonic logic applies to many zero-proof spirits. NA beer has gotten serious; NA wine is harder and more uneven.
If a bar only offers soda, that is information. If they have a dedicated NA list, use it. You are still a guest, not a problem to solve.
TheDrinkPlace includes non-alcoholic categories because people order them. No lecture, no fake wellness halo.